Tuesday, May 2, 2023

Tulip Season

The month started off with a spring break trip to my parents' house in Williamsburg, Virginia. The kids had a fabulous time going to the pool, mini golf, an IMAX movie, and a Granny-funded toy shopping trip to Target. I saved my vacation days and worked from their house, which at minimum was a change of scenery. Spring hits a few weeks earlier in southern Virginia, and the flowers and blooming trees were in full force. I went to the local library (where my mom used to work as a children's librarian for many years) to check out the used book sale, and encountered the most beautiful wisteria I have ever seen. The scent was heavenly; I can see this being the perfect location for a small wedding. Williamsburg is full of these picturesque locations, and I highly recommend a spring visit if you're on the east coast. It's really only as a gardening adult that I appreciate the 8 years I lived there. High schoolers typically care little for azaleas.



I took several walks around the neighborhood, which is built around a lake. We totally lucked out on the weather. Blue skies, and temps rising each day from about 55 to over 80 by the time we left. Does anyone feel their mood lift when we finally hit spring? My overambitious mind plans to do inside home-related projects in the winter, and outside work when it gets warm. But then it's the holidays, and it gets cold and dark, and have no motivation to get out of my comfy chair, let alone do something creative. I need to remember this for next winter, and plan on "wintering" instead of taking on any projects at all. And I need to get to my home projects while it's still warm (a feat considering the amount of gardening I do!)


On the other side of the lake is a creek which leads to the York River, which leads out to the Chesapeake Bay. It's a beautiful, peaceful area. This is the best time to visit, before the mosquitos and the humidity arrives.


Back at home, reality hit. The hot days were causing the tulips to open about 2 week earlier than last year. With 800 planted, it was a lot to keep up with. Plus, April is also the month when seedlings are ready to be planted out; and compost spread; and netting put up; and, and, and. I may have said, "I never want to see another tulip again." Now that it's done, I can look back and enjoy the beauty, and start dreaming about the varieties I'll plant this fall. 






On one rainy day I was finally able to deal with the buckets full of dried flowers from last summer and make a few bouquets. I had planned to make wreaths, but turns out, I don't have the time for that. I've sold a few of these already!


Nearly all of the main garden is planted now - I'm just waiting a few more days until the dahlias can go in. It will be a huge relief to have this done and my Sundays should be a little more free. The actual harvesting and selling takes much less time than planting and weeding. (Although I will never be done weeding.)

Do you have a hobby or skill that people are constantly telling you, "You should totally sell those! You could make money doing that!"? This is common in our contemporary hustle culture, which does not prioritize rest and leisure. I'm willing to bet you could ask nearly anyone who works for themselves if they work more or less than when they worked for another company, and they would say MORE! A common dream is to quit workin' for the man and be in charge of your days. But: I will never quit my day job. I have no desire to flower farm full time. I greatly appreciate the reliability of a paycheck, benefits, and the right to log off when my work day is over. I grow flowers because I believe local flowers are better than imported flowers with a huge carbon footprint. I love how excited people are to receive them. I also love learning new things, and believe me, I learn new things about flowers every week! I write all this because I don't want to give the wrong impression. I'm not getting rich from this, it's a ton of work, and being a flower farmer is not glamourous. No one is Floret but Floret :) If you have a passion, enjoy it as much as you can and don't feel pressured to make it your job.

As a side note, you know all those "content creators" who are quitting full-time work to make YouTube videos? I am dying to know what they will be doing in 20 years. 


April was also back to in-person work. I know a lot people couldn't work from home and had to endanger themselves during the pandemic to help others. But uggghhh that won't keep me from whining. Mostly I spend at least an hour and a half per day commuting so I can sit in online meetings with people who are at home. Luckily my company is only making us come in 2 days per week, and we get to choose those days. But that usually means that the person you want to talk to is not there at the same time as you are. Adding to the strife, a sub-group in my department was permitted to stay remote, which has led to a lot of grumbling about fairness. Fun times! (I'm a manager so I'm often the target of such grumbling.)


How was your April? Is snow still on the ground or are the flowers blooming?

12 comments:

  1. Those tulips are SO gorgeous.
    April was fine; I'm ready for warmer weather and we had the nicest stretch of sunshine this weekend...but now we're back to cloudy skies and rain. Ugh. But this will pass and then it will be summer. And then comes fall...which is my favourite season where I live in Canada!!!!
    My husband and I co-founded two businesses together and, without a doubt, the workload of doing that outstripped anything else we had ever done in a corporate (for him) and research (for me) setting. I feel like I have the best of both worlds, working part-time for a university + still managing our business on the side. A lot of flexibility, without the relentless hustle of getting things up off the ground and managing employees.

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    1. Same here! It was so nice and warm, now it's cold again and the heat is on. I hope you start seeing some nice weather again soon! From what I read it seems like you have a great situation with your job. Flexibility is so important and I don't think a lot of employees get that.

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  2. The tulips are lovely. Ours are just starting to bloom, but it's lovely to see them!

    Williamsburg looks lovely and I'm glad you took some time to go there right now. What a lovely way to get a brief preview of what a real spring looks like!

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    1. Good to hear spring is coming your way too!

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  3. " If you have a passion, enjoy it as much as you can and don't feel pressured to make it your job." - YES. I totally agree.
    Look at all those gorgeous flowers! We are having a beautifully warm week, which is very lifting to the spirits. Things are starting to turn green, which is always an exciting time of year. I had the windows open this morning early early early, and it is always so lovely to hear the birdies chirping away.

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    1. Oh, the birds! I love the green of spring as well, so fresh. I'm sure that's a welcome relief to all the snow you get, any month of the year :)

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  4. 800 tulips! What a job to manage! I am so impressed by your dedication to your flower farm, on top of all of your other responsibilities. I say sit back and try to relax in the winter! You're living the life of two people in the spring/summer!

    Those wisteria are delightful! I'd love to have lunch at one of those tables!

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    1. I'm going to use that - sorry, I can't, I'm living the life of two people! If was someone with leisure time, I would definitely be sitting under the wisteria reading my library books.

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  5. How lovely to have a Springbreak at your parents place, somewhere for you all to enjoy time together. That Wisteria is stunning and would be a fabulous place to hold any special event. Love all your tulips. I think I need to plant more in my garden this Autumn.
    have a great weekend x

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    1. There's no such thing as too many tulips... I hope you can plant many! They're always such a great surprise in the spring.

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  6. Those tulips are gorgeous! Strangely enough, I just realized I've never seen tulips here in Puerto Rico. Also, when it comes to seasonal depression, it's always during the Spring when my mental health declines + the heat over here is absolutely infernal. During the winter I'm the happiest, because it doesn't feel like I'm waking up in an oven and we always celebrate when the temp goes down to 75 degrees, lol!
    These pictures are gorgeous and I admire the amount of work you put into your gardening!

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    1. Tulips require at least 12 weeks of temperatures under 40 degrees F, so I'm guessing that NEVER happens in Puerto Rico! I never thought of seasonal depression being related to heat, but I can see that over time it could really wear you down. It's all relative!

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